THINK before you …

Thinking before you act ? that is said to be best advice anyone can recieve.

It invovles more than just to think, when you pause before you speak or act.

You what ? breathe, in through your Nose out through mouth. might even step back from where standing to do so. You are adjusting your mind, body and soul.

We have so many situations where you speak, act and/or involve self in a situation where you are either experiencing impulsivity, emotion or simply NEWTONS THIRD LAW. {every action has a reaction }

Child has bad day , you ask to complete a chore, he runs mouth , you send him to room with mood, husband comes home , your mood is directed to him from what just happened then its a explosion.  Child mood, rubs on your mood, your mood rubs on husbands mood  and its a domino affect.

Advice :

You are Thinking…

She says’ I’ll frustrate others from the moment I take before I speak, Thats exactly what happens when my husband is silent but its because he says he must assess it first’. Realizing god gives you your life partner to learn & grow together.

in end it is talked through instead of screaming through… personal,profession and/or other.


As time goes …

so often we go through life wanting what we dont have.

Straight hair wants curly . Light skin tans to become darker. Thick wants skinny AND believe it or not , I am meeting skinny who wants thick. This  supports the ole’ saying ” you want what you can’t have”

I think it is time to stop and examine what we truly have.

I had a birthday, wedding anniversary , children birthday, holiday and funeral all in the past week. I had a extremely intenese work week and in the end . It is helping me realize that not even do I need to change how I view my life and react to life but also having me realize I need to acknowledge each moment but not plan. My husband has always told me to just slow down and not panic and especially not over the things we cannot control or address now. Things that are much easier said then done BUT can be placed on goals .


Raising a family

Career / education.

How to balance and enjoy the moments at same time

Easy , do not dwell on ‘ happiness’ but fufill yourself and the day, with what gives you joy and makes you smile.

Do not ignore your pile of to-do’s or needs but assess accordingly .

then you will have your peace……